Christmas 2007

Our Christmas was wonderful. We started celebrating on Sunday. After an excellent day at church, we got to go to my sister-in-laws to call Todd's brother Tyson, who is on a mission in Argentina. It was so good to hear his voice and know that he is doing well. I can't believe he has been gone as long as he has, he only has about 9 months left!

That evening my parents made us a yummy dinner of tostadas. Then we met up with Shane and Robin Bevell and their family at the Temple. It was so good to see our good friends from Las Vegas. Robin is doing very well. (you may remember me blogging earlier about her lenghty hospital stay) After looking at the lights, all of us came back to our house to visit. We ate lots of junk food, the kids played, we got to talk, and I got to hold and feed their little baby, Logan. He is so sweet, it makes me almost want to start thinking about maybe having another baby - in the distant future!!

Christmas Eve had the annual Hallock festivities at Nana and Papa's house. It is so fun to be so close to family. I love to spend time with all of my Aunts, Uncles, and cousins. Todd's parents called us on our cell during the party. It was really interesting to hear what Christmas is like in Hong Kong. It is always great to talk to them too.

Christmas morning was so exciting. Harrison was so ready to run into the living room but I stopped him. I ran in front of him and said that I wanted to see the kids faces as they walked into the room to see what Santa brought them. So, I ran into the living room first and got a big surprise...Santa brought me a bike! I started screaming and in the midst of my excitement, kind've forgot to look and see the kids' first look at their stuff! We had a lot of gifts, it almost seems too much. Alyssa was so cute, she would squeal at every single present she got - even a toothbrush! Harrison got his drum set that he wanted....ahhhh! Anyways, we then went to my parents to open more gifts. Then we had breakfast and waited for Brennan to call from Spain. Finally he called and we talked as long as we could with him. He sounds great. He is doing really well on his mission. Later that day we went to my sister-in-laws for Christmas dinner. Mike and Janis surprised us by calling again, on skype, so my kids got to see them. They look so happy. Lyssa loved looking at her grandparents on the computer!

We had such a wonderful Christmas. I hope all of you did too.

Lyssa's boo boo

I, Jennifer Smith, vow to never, ever, no matter how desperate the situation, got to the store with both children, alone, while they are pretty much young and helpless, for as long as I live.

BECAUSE - look what happens! I am so devastated. Lyssa and Harrison were running around and she tripped and fell. I picked her up and tried to keep my cool when I saw her beautiful face bleeding. I quickly left my cart, full of stuff, walked out of the store, drove to Stephanie's, used her phone to call our doctor, drove to the doctor, (who we adore) and she got fixed up. Wow - can you say run on sentence? Anyways, I hate seeing my kids hurt, I so wish it were me with the cut, instead of her. The doctor said she probably have a little scar. I know that I shouldn't be upset, but I am. At least she can wear eye shadow some day. Thank you Stephanie for reminding me of that and helping me, even though you can't stand the sight of blood. You are the best.









Putting her hand in her mouth is her latest thing. She is a late teether and I guess it helps her teeth. By the way, that orange stuff by the tape is iodine. You know, even with the Rocky Balboa look she is sporting, she is still the most beautiful little thing.

Smith Family Home Evening

This year my sister-in-law and I decided to start a new family tradition, FHE the first Sunday of the month for the extended family. This month, being December, was the Christmas lesson. The kids dressed up and acted out Luke II. Harrison got to be Joseph. His cousin, Janalee, was Mary. Alyssa was the angel. The other kids were all shephards and wise men. The youngest was a sheep! They all looked so sweet.

Before the reenactment, my SIL asked all of the kids to draw a picture of their favorite part of Christmas. Can I tell you how happy I was when Harrison drew, according to him, "snow on top of grass"? He told me that it would be so fun to play with us and his friends in the snow during Christmas Break. So, maybe it is a little strange since this kid has never really experienced snow, BUT he didn't draw Santa or presents. He knows that the best part of Christmas is being with your family and friends and feeling the spirit of Christ. I am such a lucky mother to have two of the greatest kids ever.


Harrison as Joseph
Janalee and Harrison - best "cousins"
Look at this little angel
I have never seen a more beautiful angel

"The Book Thief"

I have just finished reading a fabulous book, "The Book Thief" by Markus Zusak. Knowing that it is set in Nazi Germany, I took my time before I opened this gem of a book. You see, I didn't want to get bogged down in the sadness this genre usually renders during this, the happiest time of the year. Happily, for me, I couldn't resist the beckoning of the book and dove right in.

Yes, it deals with death, war, and sadness. Yes, it made me scared, anxious, and sorrowful. However, after reading it, I was left feeling hopeful. Plus, I think that it had a happier ending than one would expect from a Holocaust book.

This book is rich in voice, characters, and feeling. It is full of beautiful words and images. To me, it was full of questions for myself - mainly being "what would I do if I were in this situation?"

So, if you like a good read, and cry, pick up a copy of "The Book Thief".

That's so Random

So Lauren tagged me to list 6 random facts about myself. I was tagged for this and did it awhile back, but I thought I would do it again....

1. I have a huge fear of trees. I am mostly afraid of tall pine trees. This phobia was particularly bad because the places we usually went to for vacation when I was little had an abundance of these types of trees - Utah, Pine Top, South Carolina. One time when we went to our family's cabin I would not get out of the car because I was so scared. My Mom had to carry me in. I was about 11 years old at the time! It is a good thing I live in the desert, huh?

By the way, as I have gotten older, the phobia has lessened in it's intensity. In fact, when I ran the marathon in Prescott, I was not afraid at all. And let me tell you, there were many, many tall pine trees on the race trail! I think my physical pain overtook my mental weakness there.

2. Between my two kiddos, I have had two very different pregnancies.

Harrison was diagnosed with gastroschisis while I was 4 months pregnant. Gastroschisis is a congenital birth defect where the intestines protrude through an opening in the abdominal wall. So, needless to say, I was at high risk. My regular OB sent me to a group of perinatologists - high risk OBs. I had to go to the doctors all the time to be monitored and all sorts of other fun stuff. Although the doctors were "cautiously optimistic" that Harrison would be fine, we were told that he would have to have surgery soon after birth, to repair the hole in the abdomen and to put the intestines in the abdominal cavity. Also, we were warned that he would stay in the NICU for up to 6 months. I WAS TERRIFIED! However, after the initial shock, that pregnancy was one of the sweetest times of my life. I really learned to rely on my Savior a whole lot more than I already did. Plus, my faith grew, and I knew Harrison would be fine. And he was. Born five and half weeks early - normal for gastroschisis babies - he was 5 pounds 15 oz and 19 inches long. He had surgery hours after birth and the surgery was a success! In fact, he came home 12 DAYS later. What a miracle.

My pregnancy with Alyssa was way different. Everything was perfectly normal, except for the fact that I was riddled with anxiety that something would go wrong - like with Harrison. One minor thing appeared in our routine ultrasound that made my OB send me to a perinatologist for a more indepth ultrasound. It turns out that she had three cists in or near her brain. The perinatologist said that they weren't a problem and that a lot of us probably have them and don't even know it. So, the rest of the pregnancy was normal, until...my due date came and went! Alyssa was born 5 days late and came ou weighing 9 pounds 2 oz and was 21 1/2 inches long. All I have to say about this is AHHHHHH! But, I really think that bigger babies are very attractive - or maybe that is just my little Lyssa. Plus, it was good she was "sturdy" she had a three year old brother that "loved" her a little to hard sometimes!


3. I am a quarter Japanese. Do I look like it? My Mom is half and her biological mother is full, her biological father was Irish (is that where Lyssa's red, curly hair comes from?). My Mom's favorite thing to say is, "Don't my grandkids look just like me?" Wouldn't it be cool, if we have another child, that he or she could look Japanese? I have a very pretty Japanese girl name all picked out!




4. Like I mentioned before, my Mom is adopted. So is my grandma (Dad's mom) and so are two of Todd's cousins. I really like the idea of adoption and Todd and I are interested in exploring some options down the road. We don't know if it is "ok" for people who can get pregnant to adopt though. However, I think that with all the children out there that need a family, it would be ok. I was sickened when I heard that the man who shot the people at the Omaha mall last week was "no longer in the (foster) system anymore" - meaning that he turned 18 and was out on his own. I can't help but wonder what a stable family could have done for him. It might have spared his victims' lives.

5. I want to go back to school and get my Post-Bac degree as a reading specialist. This way I can teach Special Reading and this job offers flexible hours. I have no idea when this is going to happen though!

6. I don't like eating meat. I am compleatly convinced that NOT eating meat is very heathful. Furthermore, I know that when I eat a diet that is free of meat, I feel way better. No, I am not a vegan or vegetarian. Both Todd and I have been vegetarians before, in fact it was about this time last year that we full-time veggies. Why the change? Many reasons:

1. Laziness. Sometimes it is just easier to make a "traditional" meal than a pure vegetarian one.


2. Dinner parties. I am not the type of person that will make a host change their menu just for me. It is rude!


3. Sometimes meat just tastes good.

I could go on and on, but I don't want to be provocative. Let me just add that scientific evidence has shown that people who don't drink and smoke (think Word of Wisdom here) live 10 years longer than those that do. Furthermore, adding lots of fruits and veggies and limiting a lot of meat intake make those 10 extra years healthier and can even add more years to your life. A lot of the prophets and apostles attribute(d) their longevity to the fact that they don't/didn't eat meat.

You know it is Christmas time in Arizona when...

Oranges are absolutely delicious!

I started peeling an orange and that wonderful smell hit me. I love oranges here in the winter! That smell equals Christmas to me. It especially reminds me of the time I visited my parents, when I lived in Vegas, for weeks around this time of year. Every morning, after his run, my Dad would have an orange with his breakfast. While eating, he made me play gin with him. He usually won. That just goes to show you the power of oranges - you can win gin rummy! Love you Dad.

Other things that signify Christmas around here - (to me)

Mesa Temple Lights
Christmas Idea House - it was fabulous this year
Tamales and salsa - yummy
The railroad park's Christmas Lights
It is almost cold enough that your toes get cold in your flip flops
Beautiful winter grass (we decided not to do it this year, sad for me, good for the environment)

This last one doesn't apply to me anymore, and maybe I am sick, but I kinda miss it -
the craziness of finals and then the euphoria of knowing that you are off for a one month break

What are some of the things that mean Christmas to you?

Pics of my haircut

Before

After

So, not too dramatic, just a little off the ends. This cut makes it loads easier to do.

I seriously hope that the secret Christmas present Todd already got for me was what I asked for - photoshop! These pics need some touch ups!

Rain, Rain, come and STAY

I have been loving the rain today! It is just so nice for a little change. This afternoon I was in the front room picking up. The curtains were opened and I could see the beauty of the rain and the dark skies at the same time I saw our Christmas tree. It was a warm and fuzzy moment.

Anyway...it is so sweet of you, Lauren, to notice that I have been MIA. I have been very busy this past week. Thanksgiving was perfect. Everything was beautiful and tasty. The butternut squash was great, and Becky R., I am going to post the recipe at recipe mamas. I am so glad that I had that nice, restful, long weekend, because all of that peace ended Sunday. Not really, I am just being a tad dramatic. However, when you get called to be the Young Women secretary when you are brand new in the ward, it gets a little CRAZY.

This is my third time in the seven years I have been married that I have been in YW. I am excitied, but very intimidated and overwhelmed. Before I was the 2nd counselor and a Mia Maid advisor, and I was always very glad I wasn't the secretary. I guess this is what I get for thinking that! I really don't think that it is going to be too hard, once I get the hang of it. I am also very happy to be serving with the other women called. They are so nice and talented. I have a feeling I am going to be learning a lot from them.

Now onto the hair, Lauren! I will post the pics next post. I was very happy with it, my cousin Steph does an excellent job. I just wish that she, and her husband Chris, could move in with us. You know, so she can do my hair every morning!

Happy Thanksgiving!

We wish everyone a wonderful holiday, especially Grandma and Grandpa Smith, Uncle Tyson, and Uncle Brennan, who are all on missions! We love you and miss you!

So, for some unknown reason, I volunteered to do Thanksgiving dinner at my house this year. I started panicking about a week ago. This weekend, when my weird lingering illness got really bad, I was really panicking. However, today I am excited and pretty confident. I have handed out assignments, made a list for myself, went shopping, am in the process of defrosting the bird, and have cleaned like a crazy person. Today I am making a few dishes to ease tomorrow's workload. It looks like I am really going to pull this off! Here is the menu:

Turkey
Mashed potatoes
stuffing with sausage
green bean casserole (not what you think, this is a yummy Smith dish)
butternut squash with pecans and blue cheese (this may be too "Martha" for me, but we'll see)
rolls
cranberries
green salad
veggie tray

pies, pies, pies

It looks like a lot, but I have delegated and am not in charge of everything! So, what are your plans for Thanksgiving? What are some of your favorite dishes and traditions?

Shout Out to Todd!!!

OK, this picture was taken three years ago, but it mirrors our life right now. I have been SO sick. I think it should be against the law of nature for a mother to be sick. It seems that once I get over one thing, I get something else - usually from my cute kids. Anyway, Todd has really taken care of me. He has made me stay in bed while he takes care of the kids. He goes about parenting a little differently, and I should probably adapt to his style a little. He isn't all consumed with a strict schedule and cleaning. He is so calm. He is so confident in his abilities. He loves the guitar and so do the kids. He plays it and they sing and dance. The kids have been well taken care of today. Thank you so much Toddy, I love you so much.

Gilbert Days

So yesterday was the annual "Gilbert Days" parade. Even though I am not a Gilbert resident, and haven't been to the parade since elementary school, I went yesterday. I came to support my Dad and Mom who were in it, my Dad's school had a float in the parade. After this experience, I now know how my parents must have felt at every recital, concert, and other special thing I performed at...BORED...until your special someone performs that is. So Mom and Dad, consider this a little payback, and thank you for your support as I was growing up!!!


Here are Mom and Dad
Only Lyssa came, Harrison was sick and Todd took care of him.

Here is Gavin, looking festive.

I do want to add that it was awesome to go to the parade and see so many of my extended family there. I sat with my Nana and Papa, Great Aunt and Uncle, second cousins, Aunt and Uncle, and many first cousins. They were all so proud of my parents and cheered so loud as they walked by. What a tribute. I think that says a lot about how my family feels for my Dad and Mom.

I am very proud of them too. I remember when my Dad went back to school to become a teacher, some jerk expressed this lovely sentiment to my Mom, "How is he going to support your family?" Well, he has supported us very well. Both of my parents are such a good example of teamwork to me. Together they worked to provide for our family. Now, he is a principal, and loves his work. He does such a great job. My Mom is a counselor and also does great work. I had the privelege to witness my parents become succesful doing what they love, because of this, I have always felt that I could become whatever it is I wanted in life. I really feel that if it wasn't for their example, and also the example of Todd's parents, we wouldn't have had the courage to go to law school. I am so grateful we did, because now I am doing just what I always wanted to do in this stage of my life - staying at home with my children.

ZAFU

No, that is not a typo. Have you heard of zafu.com? It is an AWESOME, FREE website that helps you pick out the exact right pair of jeans to wear. You put in some information, such as height, weight, and some other stuff and it gives you a list of jeans that will flater your figure.

It really works. The past few months I have lost weight, which is great, but my pants don't fit anymore. My body is built differently than the majority of women - I am more of an apple shape. So, it is hard to find jeans anyway. BUT - This morning I went to the store and tried on the pair of jeans that Zafu told me too and wow - I have to say I look good. So try it out, if you want - www.zafu.com

Have you ever felt....

older than dirt? This week I had the privelege of judging some cheerleading tryouts at a local junior high. So through conversation, I realized that some of the other judges went to the same high school that I did. They were shocked that they didn't know me. Then they asked when I graduated. When I said '97, you should have seen the looks on their faces! Complete and utter schock. It was like they thought people who graduated in the 1990s were old and grey by now. To top it off, it was my birthday! One year older and wiser too - I love that as I get older, I really do get wiser. I have learned that age is just a number, in fact I feel better as I age.

A Boo-tiful Halloween

In case you weren't sick of seeing my kids all dressed up...Oh and I am Bat Girl! Todd stayed behind to pass out treats. We have a really busy Halloween street and were cleaned right out!

Railroad Park

Have you ever visited McCormick Stillman Railroad Park in Scottsdale? If not, you really should. It has a wonderful train ride and Merry Go Round. It is only $2 for the train and $1 for the Merry Go Round. Plus, their playground is shaded, a real plus for pale people like me and Lyssa. The two of us found ourselves here one morning last week. It was so much fun and good bonding time too. After our visit to the park, we met up with my brother Gavin, who works nearby, for lunch. Everyone at the restaurant made comments about how pretty Lyssa is - even with a fat lip - courtesy of Harrison and a kickball. In fact, almost every time I take this little girl anywhere, I get such comments. I feel so blessed.




Waiting in line for the train...

So excited to be on the train!

Another ride? Too fun!

I had a hard time separating her from this slide!

Here are some pics of the kids

This is for my in-laws in China...I want them to

see little Lyssa in her dress and see how handsome Harrison is.

Hallock Halloween Party

This past week was filled with so many parties and other fun things. On Saturday we had our ward trunk or treat, which was a blast. Then on Sunday my parents hosted a Halloween party for the extended family. My grandparents, aunt and uncle, and a lot of my cousins came. We played a lot and had some yummy chili and cake. Then we had the kids do a model walk down the stairs one at a time where my Dad announced them. After they came down the stairs the kids went trick or treating to us adults - good candy too. I think it may be against the law to have so much fun!!





Lyssa the China Doll - dress courtsey of
Grandma and Grandpa Smith from
Hong Kong

Harrison the Pirate - doesn't he look scary?

Harrison, Papa, Summer, Nana, and Lyssa

The kids loved the parachute!!

Bobbing for apples..... we don't know

how to take turns in my family!!

Here is my Mom, dressing all of the kids up as mummies

Here are Papa and Nana, the only adults who dressed up!

Hopefully this becomes a tradition in our family. I really love my family and don't see my cousins enough!

Robin, Dream Jobs, and ya, I delteted my two previous posts

So earlier I posted about my friend Robin and her health issues. Well, her health actually got worse. She had to have another major surgery and stayed in the hospital for 21 days. Thankfully, she is at home now and on the mend. She is still really weak and can't really take care of her children- luckilly her mother-in-law lives nearby - but told me today she is "grateful to be alive". Her statement really struck me. Earlier this week a teacher at the school my Mom works at was killed in a car accident on the way to school. My mom noticed he was born on the exact date I was - he would have been 29 next week. These two incidents have really made me take on a different perspective towards life. Life can be short and it can throw you some curve balls, but it is a gift to be appreciated and enjoyed.

Speaking of enjoying life, yesterday I went to a training class to be an Art Masterpiece Teacher for Harrison's class. This class was awesome, I learned so much about art - which I never had an interest in before! I loved it. I also loved the whole experience of going to "school". I loved school, escpecially college. I know I am a nerd, but I love taking notes, thinking, and learning new things. My dream job would have to be being a professional student. So, what is your dream job? I would really love to know.

And finally, I did delete the previous two posts, just because I don't want to dwell on that unhappiness. I appreciate everyone's advice! Also, in case anyone was wondering, we are not doing carpool and everything worked out fine. I used the truth - honesty is the best policy.

Alert the Media!!

.....Jenny is going off of the hooch (aka Diet Coke). After a lot of consideration, I have decided that I need to cut this addiction from my life. The next few days are going to be very hard, you all might want to steer clear of me!! Don't worry, I don't have much planned, so I will be a recluse until I am done withdrawing! I know that I will feel much better in a few days. I've quit before, I can do it now. This will be the last time too. It is not worth it to start again.

On to other things, Becky, I commented on the cupcakes below. I took pics, so I will have to post them later. Our cupcakes don't look great, but we had a blast making them. It brought back memories of when Todd, Brennan, and I made and frosted sugar cookies on Christmas Eve a long time ago. They looked just awful, and we put them on my uncle and aunt's doorstep - they lived just across the street from my parent's at the time. We didn't know that my Mom was there when we did this. So when she came home she was all excited to tell us this story about how someone put these nasty cookies on their doorstep and took off. They all thought that either, little kids made them or someone did it to be mean. They were afraid to even eat them! We were dying laughing as she told us this story. It has been a source of laughter ever since. So this Monday, as we were making these cupcakes, I said, "Todd, this reminds of the time..." He stopped me and said, "I know!!" I almost wet my pants I was laughing so hard. Oh well, they sure taste good!!

It's Time to get your Craft On!

So today was my ward's Enrichment Night, which was a Super Craft Night! I signed up for many more crafts than I could do in one night. So now I have a lot of stuff on my to do list. But, I am so excited! These crafts are going to make wonderful holiday gifts. Oh and they also had a class on frosting and decorating cupcakes. It was so fun and it gave me a ton of ideas. Watch out Harrison, Alyssa, and Todd...we are going to have a cupcake-a-thon!

Saturday!

We had a great day. Sleeping in is always fabulous. Watching General Conference was very uplifting. After conference, I attempted to clean house while Todd went with my Dad and brother to the Priesthood session. As I was mopping, my Mom rang the doorbell and saved me from housework! We went to dinner at Wildflower. Then the "boys" called us and came to meet us there. It was a lot of fun to just hang out with my family. My kids were pretty good, well, they do love their Grammy, Pappy, and Uncle!

Harrison the Reader!!

I have to do a mommy gush right now...Harrison read an entire book today! It is, "The Foot Book", by Dr. Suess. I love Dr. Suess. Anywway, I am so proud of him. What a smart kid. He is now in his room, supposedly sleeping. I went in there a few minutes ago and he had the closet light on and he was reading. This brings me back to my childhood. I used to do that too. I loved reading and still do. It is so exciting watching him grow up and learn new things. Go Harrison!

Happy Birthday Little Lyssa

Alyssa is two today!! I really can't believe it. The time has gone by so fast, yet so much has changed. Two years ago Todd was in his third year of law school at UNLV and working part time as a lawclerk. We were living in a small, two bedroom apartment. Harrison was so little, he wasn't even in preschool yet. I could keep a clean house - 960 square feet had it's advantages! Lyssa was cute as ever, well some things haven't changed! I feel so blessed that Alyssa is my daughter. I always wanted a little girl and she has exceeded my expectations! Thank you to all of our friends and family for such nice and thoughtful gifts. We love ya!

Also, a Robin update...her husband called and it is good news. She is doing better and may be out of ICU by Thursday. If things keep going well, she may be home this weekend!

Please Pray for Robin

My best friend from Las Vegas is very sick. Her husband just called Todd to tell us that she has been in the hospital for four days in critical condition with an infection. She had a baby a few weeks ago by c-section. I remember that she told me she caught a bug from her two year old twins before she had her new baby. She thought that this is why she was sick. She told me that she was ok though. So fast forward to today, and you know the rest. I am so scared. She was my rock while Todd was in law school. I could call her and talk about anything and she made it better. She was the one I called at 2 am when I was in labor with Lyssa, she said bring Harrison now and I will pick up your Mom from the airport for you. She has four kids and a sweet husband. She has gone through so much in her life and has always been an example to me . She has to be ok. Please pray for her to recover.

The picture is us this summer. She has family in Phoenix and came to visit.

Dual Personalities/Appreciated Conference today

Don't worry, I am not announcing that I have an alter personality! It is just that sometimes I feel so confused about who I am. When I was young, I read a book about a Chinese immigrant coming to America. As she crossed the ocean in her boat, she danced a strange dance. She would be dancing towards America and then contort her body as if China was dragging her back. She kept this up for quite a while. This brilliantly illustrated how torn she was. She was excited for all of the new opportunities that America had to offer, yet she would miss China dearly. I feel like this character a bit. No, I am not torn between countries, I wish it were that easy! It is sad, but I have let these stupid things cloud my life and make it so that I can't see through the haziness...for example: I want a clean house, yet I have children who I want to play with, which is more important? I am not able to do both things at once! These are the types of the not so important things that plague me.

So, today as I watched the Relief Society session of conference, I was so touched. My leaders spoke to me and told me how I should live so that I won't have to do the Chinese immigrant dance anymore!! They told us to pray, study, and serve. Yes, I heard this before, and I will have to hear it over and over again, BUT today and for the near future, I will have this lesson fresh in my mind.

I want to add how much I love the new presidency too! I already loved Sis. Beck, but I am so happy to have heard Sis. Allred and Sis. Thompson (I think that is her name, I am too tired to look it up now, if it is wrong I will edit). Sister Allred spoke beautifully. I couldn't have done that in my native tongue! Sis. Thompson was delightful. I am so happy that we have such a diverse presidency, as I think this represents the women of the church much more accurately.

OK, I am done....I sprained my ankle earlier today and need to rest it!!

Weekend Wrap Up

Not that we did anything fabulous, but I loved this weekend for many reasons:

1. It finally cooled down, well for AZ standards. Sunday morning Harrison was outside and said, "I'm cold Mom". I walked to my Mom and Dad's house for dinner on Sunday and I thought, "Fall is in the air." Todd drove and when I met him at my parent's house I told him how good it felt outside. That's when he told me the car thermostat said it was 93 degrees. Go figure, an Arizona girl thinks 93 is cool!

2. Our talks are over! We had to speak for our new ward and I am so glad I am done with that! I spoke on prayer, Todd spoke on personal revelation.

3. I got to visit with my grandparents.

4. I got to sleep in. There is nothing better for a big sleeper like me.

5. Lyssa gave me three fantastic hugs. In an earlier post, I mentioned that she likes everyone else better, or so it seems. She must be warming up to me! She also preferred me to Todd a lot this weekend. This was the best part of my weekend!!!

Seven things about me!

Becky tagged me for this....

1. I love to read.

Sorry to copy you Janell, but I do. I can get kinda bad though when I get into a book: I get no sleep, the kids pretty much run amuck, and the whole house is a disaster.

2. I am addicted to Diet Coke.

Everyone probably knows this one though!

3. I love TV and movies.

I love that TV series are on DVD now. Todd and I pop them in and bond while being couch potatoes. Our favorites are "Big Love", "Lost", and "Weeds".

4. I also love to exercise.

I like running. I even ran a half marathon last May and a ten miler with Marsha in June. I also love to walk too.

5. I enjoy planning activities to do with my kids.

My kids are pretty sick of it I'm sure, but I research all of the fun, cheap, kid things to do and then we do it. Our favorites are the sprinkler park, Cabella's, story time, and play dates.

6. Going out to eat is a favorite of mine.

I can't think of anything better that eating something yummy and not having to clean up afterwards!

7. Viva Las Vegas!

I loved living in Vegas while Todd was in Law School. Don't get any crazy ideas, I never gambled or anything. There was just tons of fun things to do. We loved the parks, and Ethel M's the best. It was a little cooler than it is here, I froze in the winter! Plus, some of the greatest people I have ever met live there. It is funny, but I get a little homesick for it once in a while.

Twilight, I give it 2 stars

Well, I have finally read "Twilight". Everyone raves about it, so I wanted to see what all of the fuss was about. I'm probably going to be the first one to say this but......it was just alright to me. Not my favorite by far. I thought, since it was about vampires, it would be a little darker, edgier. Also, the story was a little too predictable for my taste.
Maybe I didn't love it because I heard all of the hype and built it up bigger in my head. Maybe its because I have an aversion to liking things everyone else does: I can't stand Harry Potter or The Lord of the Rings. Or maybe its because I am just weird.

The things I did like about "Twilight" are:

1. Some of it takes place in Phoenix. It is fun to know exactly how to picture the scene in your head.

2. The "vampire" family. I liked hearing about their history.

**Note: I am sorry if you love any of the books I listed above and it offended you. My intent is not to hurt feelings, it is simply my honest opinion.

Reverse on the 3/11 rule

Have you ever heard of the 3/11 rule? That is where you tell 3 people if you had a good experience somewhere and 11 people if you had a horrible experience. So, if there are even 11 people who read this, I want to do a reverse of this rule. I am such a rule breaker! ha, ha

So earlier this week, when I had my bad day, I went to Fry's Pharmacy. They had to do a simple refill and somehow, even with three people behind the counter, could not complete this task in under 2 hours. I called it in. Waited the amount of time I should. Went to the store in the heat with two cranky kids. When I got to the pharmacy, my script had not been filled yet. They asked if I could wait a few minutes. Sure, how long could it be. Well, after too much of my time had been spent waiting with two screaming kids, I stormed out of there, with no meds because, the three of them couldn't fill it in a half an hour. (not to mention I called it in way, way, earlier).

Fast forward to today. I have another prescription to be filled (If you haven't noticed, my face broke out like a teenager's and I finally went to the dermi and now I have even more meds to take). So I dropped it off at the Neighborhood WalMart. What a night and day difference!!! There was an issue with a discount card the doc gave me, so it took them a while to figure it out. They were so friendly and helpful. They explained to me what I should do with my meds. They even gave me samples because of the wait. Plus, there were only two of them there. Additionally, when Harrison was sick last week, I sent Todd to that same WalMart to get some Children's Ibuprofen. When he got there he was a little overwhelmed by the amount of choices. Plus, I had asked him to get me canker sore medication (yes, I am a druggie). So, Todd had no clue what to look for. (Even though he is a brilliant attorney, he can't find his way around a drug store, go figure) So, he asks the pharmacist. This is a different guy than who helped me. This guy gets out of the pharmacy thing, and helps Todd find the exact right medicine, with a smile on his face! I am so thrilled with the quality of service we received at this store.

So, if you need a prescription filled, head on over there! Plus, it has a drive through!!

Me and Todd

Our engagement picture...

I was tagged so here it goes...

1. How did you and your husband meet?

Well, that is a long story. My MIL and Mom worked in the same department at Gilbert High School. My Mom was new and the entire first week of school my MIL was gone, which is a big no no. So when my MIL came back, my Mom jokingly asked, "Who do you think you are being gone the first week"? Turns out, she was picking up Todd with my FIL from his mission in Italy. After that first meeting our moms got to be friends. Well we all know friends talk. During one of these talks, their kids came up. They thought that Todd and I would be perfect for each other. So they bugged us to meet and we both refused, for months! Finally, to get his mom off his back, he went to "check me out". I was working in the jewelry department at Mervyns. Funny thing, I saw him walking around before he approached me and thought he looked like such a good guy. So he came up to me with his broken watch and asked for help. Mervyns doesn't fix watches, so I sent him on his way. Discouraged, he finally said, "Does your Mom teach at Gilbert High"? We have been together ever since!


2. What was the first thing you said to your husband?


Hmmm...maybe, can I help you?

3. Where was your first date?

I know you will all be jealous. Filaberto's and Skateland. Romantic huh? What happened was, Todd asked a friend what a fun date would be, and this was it. Don't worry, I have forgiven him. Plus, Skateland was really fun!

4. Where was your first kiss?

In his car. After about five dates.

5. How long did you date?


About two months!


6. Did you have a long or short engagement?

It was 6 months. To my LDS friends it was long and to my other friends it was short.

7. Where did you get engaged?

In his backyard. We were playing around and all of a sudden he hugged me and said, "Marry me." A week later, after he asked my Dad for permission and bought a ring he took me to the Temple grounds (sound familiar?) and kneeled down. He goes, "I have a very important question to ask you...what is your favorite color?" He has been teasing me ever since.

8. Where were you married?

Mesa, Az Temple on June 8, 2000

9. How did the reception go?

Great. It was beautiful. We had it at Val Vista Lakes Clubhouse. We danced to "Here Comes The Sun", by the Beatles. We left on a boat! We had a friend who lived on the water in Val Vista Lakes and decorated her boat beautifully so we could sail away on it. That was so fun.

10. How was the honeymoon?

Pretty good. We stayed in a nice hotel for the wedding night. The next day we drove to Sedona. It was so relaxing. I think Todd and I need to take another trip just the two of us!

As I said on Janell's blog, you are my only blog friends so far so I tag however hasn't done it yet!!

GAVIN

Since I have mentioned every other member of my immediate family on this blog, except my other brother Gavin, I thought I would dedicate today's entry to him. Gavin is such a great brother. He is always there to lend a helping hand. Everytime we move, there he is with his truck ready and willing to help. Our kids love him. Harrison loves to wrestle with him. Lyssa runs up to him every time we see him to get a huge hug. Todd loves the fact that Gavin will watch, talk, and play sports with him. I know that I get on Gavin's nerves every once in a while, but I hope he knows I love him. According to Harrison, this is what Gavin stands for:

G - great uncle

A- always helping

V-vivacious (I helped with this one)

I- incredible

N- nice

We love ya Gavin!

Make my day

Unfortuanley, today has not been great. My Dad called me in the midst of chaos that has been following me today and I burst into tears. Even though I have 2 kids of my own, I guess I still need my parents. I felt like I was a little girl again when I told him all of my woes. Then, because he is the greatest dad, he knew just what to say to make me feel better.

After we hung up, I thought that the best thing to do to keep my spirits up was to look at cute pictures of the kids. Then I stumbled upon the one with Harrison and almost lost it again! It is Harrison and my brother Brennan. Brennan is serving a mission in Barcelona and I miss him so much! He is my best friend. Looking at this did make me happy though. I know he is doing the right thing by serving a mission. Plus, this pic was taken on a happy day. Brennan adores Harrison and bought this slip and slide just for him. They played on it for hours!

The one of Alyssa I love just because it makes me laugh.... The other one is of my Mom and Dad with Brennan. I aspire to be the kind of parent they are.

September 11th

Today is the sixth anniversary of September 11th, I really can't believe it happened. It is like a movie, a bad dream, an even worse joke. Why did this happen? Why? It is so very senseless. I can't fathom how the grieving family members feel. I understand that in other places of the world terriosim happens more often than here. A lot more often actually. It is a scary world.

However, when I look at this picture, I feel better. I love what it represents: triumph, overcoming evil, a sense of hope, and love of community. This world might be scary, but we can make it a better place.

I hope to never forget these horrific events. I am so grateful that I am an American and that I have the right to use my vote in a productive manner. I often pray for President Bush to make wise decisions concerning this country. I also pray for all of the world's leaders. I pray for peace and safety. Today I will pray for the grieving family members of September 11th.

Good intentions....

Today I found myself in such a predicament! Here is a little back story...Todd loves to go to Gospel Principles for Sunday School. He likes that it is a small class size and he also likes meeting investigators. So last week in class I mentioned that it would great if we had snacks in class. I even volunteered to bring treats the first week. Sounds great, right? Well, fast forward to this Sunday.

Todd and Harrison not feeling well. Alyssa is screaming. I don't want to go to church all by myself with a screaming toddler. I announce that I will not be going to church. Todd looks up from the couch with his pale, sick face and asks, "What about Sunday School?"

GREAT! How "member missionary" would that be to no show when I promised a treat? Plus, I really want to be a woman of my word. So here I am baking stuff this morning. I am so not a baker. I hate it. I mean I love the end product, but I detest the mixing, the mess, and the extra padding that I get after I partake. Plus, my baked goods are not really all that good.

Alas, I make it. I drive to church before Sunday School. I can't find a parking space and end up illegally parking so I can quickly run inside to bring baked goods to my fellow classmates. As I stroll down the hall everyone is oohing and awing at my treats, the baked ones that is. I finally find the teacher, give him the goods, and hightail it outta there. I blame all of this on the fact that last week was Fast Sunday and I was a little lightheaded when I opened my mouth to volunteer snacks. Anyway, I hope they liked them!

Harrison

Harrison is a joy. He is smart, friendly, and loving. He is obsessed with trains. This picture is of him with Grandpa Smith this summer on the Heber Valley Railroad (aka The Heber Creeper). Even though he is great, he has his moments like every other 5 year old. Here are some of our most recent conversations:

Me: It is time to do your homework (why kindergarteners have homework is beyond me)

Harrison: I don't want to do it!

Me: Too bad.

Harrison: Too GOOD!

Here is another one:

Me: I don't like it when you talk back.

Harrison: I'm not talking back, I'm talking FRONT!

Even though I am a little upset when we are having these conversations, I have to stifle a giggle. It is too funny!

Here is the latest Harrisonism from this morning:

(He had a fever and red eyes last night)

Me: Good morning, how do you feel?

Harrison: I feel better, my eyes are brown now!

And what handsome brown eyes they are.

Alyssa

Alyssa, my sweet redhead girl, is something special. She is very particular, bossy, and stubborn, but at the same time is so very sweet! Obviously this toddler keeps us on our toes.
Some of Alyssa's favorite things are:
*getting into my makeup
*getting into markers and drawing on her body
*her blanket and baby
*her "baba" (I know, I know, she is too old for a bottle, but I have got to pick my battles!)
*her Daddy and her brother.
Me? I am chopped liver. Unless I can provide her with makeup, markers, her blanket, her baby, her baba, her Daddy, or her brother!! Todd says that every time I leave to go somewhere with out her she is inconsolable. I am grasping to this and hoping that it means she loves me and can't live without me!

Here we go!

I am entering the world of blogs. I just hope that I can be techno-savy enough to keep up with this.