Tuesday, December 11, 2007

That's so Random

So Lauren tagged me to list 6 random facts about myself. I was tagged for this and did it awhile back, but I thought I would do it again....

1. I have a huge fear of trees. I am mostly afraid of tall pine trees. This phobia was particularly bad because the places we usually went to for vacation when I was little had an abundance of these types of trees - Utah, Pine Top, South Carolina. One time when we went to our family's cabin I would not get out of the car because I was so scared. My Mom had to carry me in. I was about 11 years old at the time! It is a good thing I live in the desert, huh?

By the way, as I have gotten older, the phobia has lessened in it's intensity. In fact, when I ran the marathon in Prescott, I was not afraid at all. And let me tell you, there were many, many tall pine trees on the race trail! I think my physical pain overtook my mental weakness there.



2. Between my two kiddos, I have had two very different pregnancies.

Harrison was diagnosed with gastroschisis while I was 4 months pregnant. Gastroschisis is a congenital birth defect where the intestines protrude through an opening in the abdominal wall. So, needless to say, I was at high risk. My regular OB sent me to a group of perinatologists - high risk OBs. I had to go to the doctors all the time to be monitored and all sorts of other fun stuff. Although the doctors were "cautiously optimistic" that Harrison would be fine, we were told that he would have to have surgery soon after birth, to repair the hole in the abdomen and to put the intestines in the abdominal cavity. Also, we were warned that he would stay in the NICU for up to 6 months. I WAS TERRIFIED! However, after the initial shock, that pregnancy was one of the sweetest times of my life. I really learned to rely on my Savior a whole lot more than I already did. Plus, my faith grew, and I knew Harrison would be fine. And he was. Born five and half weeks early - normal for gastroschisis babies - he was 5 pounds 15 oz and 19 inches long. He had surgery hours after birth and the surgery was a success! In fact, he came home 12 DAYS later. What a miracle.

My pregnancy with Alyssa was way different. Everything was perfectly normal, except for the fact that I was riddled with anxiety that something would go wrong - like with Harrison. One minor thing appeared in our routine ultrasound that made my OB send me to a perinatologist for a more indepth ultrasound. It turns out that she had three cists in or near her brain. The perinatologist said that they weren't a problem and that a lot of us probably have them and don't even know it. So, the rest of the pregnancy was normal, until...my due date came and went! Alyssa was born 5 days late and came ou weighing 9 pounds 2 oz and was 21 1/2 inches long. All I have to say about this is AHHHHHH! But, I really think that bigger babies are very attractive - or maybe that is just my little Lyssa. Plus, it was good she was "sturdy" she had a three year old brother that "loved" her a little to hard sometimes!


3. I am a quarter Japanese. Do I look like it? My Mom is half and her biological mother is full, her biological father was Irish (is that where Lyssa's red, curly hair comes from?). My Mom's favorite thing to say is, "Don't my grandkids look just like me?" Wouldn't it be cool, if we have another child, that he or she could look Japanese? I have a very pretty Japanese girl name all picked out!




4. Like I mentioned before, my Mom is adopted. So is my grandma (Dad's mom) and so are two of Todd's cousins. I really like the idea of adoption and Todd and I are interested in exploring some options down the road. We don't know if it is "ok" for people who can get pregnant to adopt though. However, I think that with all the children out there that need a family, it would be ok. I was sickened when I heard that the man who shot the people at the Omaha mall last week was "no longer in the (foster) system anymore" - meaning that he turned 18 and was out on his own. I can't help but wonder what a stable family could have done for him. It might have spared his victims' lives.

5. I want to go back to school and get my Post-Bac degree as a reading specialist. This way I can teach Special Reading and this job offers flexible hours. I have no idea when this is going to happen though!

6. I don't like eating meat. I am compleatly convinced that NOT eating meat is very heathful. Furthermore, I know that when I eat a diet that is free of meat, I feel way better. No, I am not a vegan or vegetarian. Both Todd and I have been vegetarians before, in fact it was about this time last year that we full-time veggies. Why the change? Many reasons:


  1. Laziness. Sometimes it is just easier to make a "traditional" meal than a pure vegetarian one.

  2. Dinner parties. I am not the type of person that will make a host change their menu just for me. It is rude!

  3. Sometimes meat just tastes good.

I could go on and on, but I don't want to be provocative. Let me just add that scientific evidence has shown that people who don't drink and smoke (think Word of Wisdom here) live 10 years longer than those that do. Furthermore, adding lots of fruits and veggies and limiting a lot of meat intake make those 10 extra years healthier and can even add more years to your life. A lot of the prophets and apostles attribute(d) their longevity to the fact that they don't/didn't eat meat.


8 comments:

Browns said...

yeah ! you did it1 that was fun to read about you! The tree thing is hillarious! I dont feel quite so weird anymore

Frolicking Night Owl said...

Hi Jenny!

First of all, I felt sorry for myself that Nolan was over 8 lbs. Dang girl! And aren't you about the same size as me ... small girls with BIG babies!!

Next, OF COARSE you can adopt! Come to me when you're ready!! I will be happy to help you however I can.

Lastly, I didn't know that you're into veggie eating. We should swap some recipes. I pretty much stopped eating meat when I was 14-ish. I'll try to eat it too if someone invites us over or when I was pregnant sometimes I think my body was craving it...maybe the iron. I do eat fish. But I could probably count on one hand the number of times I've cooked meat this year. Joel loves pot roast, so we make that a couple times a year & we might have grilled chicked once or twice. My father-in-law is anti-vegetarian & is not happy with my choices.... I've heard that about the prophets too.

Jennifer Smith said...

Becky - Having big babies is a given with me, since Todd is 6 feet 5 inches tall. The nurses in L&D kept saying, "You're so small, how are you having such a big baby?"!

Plus, I would love some veggie recipes! I would even love to just have a list of a weekly menu so that I can have more ideas of what to make.

Oh and I think that you and my friend Lauren (who tagged me) know each other. She lived in my culdesac growing up. I think that your families lived in the same apartments in Tucson when you were little.

Melody B. said...

Jennifer, a few things:

1) Why are you afraid of trees? Is it jsut an irrational fear thingor did something happen?
2)What's the Japanese name?
3) Did you know that there is a mineral IN meat that controls the taste and texture of meat? So, if you don't eat meat...you don't get the mineral and therefore it tastes yucky to you. Funny huh? Too much meat is disgusting! I never understood those people who try to eat like 96oz. of steak to win a t-shirt or something...sick! All things in moderation I say!

Jennifer Smith said...

I have no idea why I am afraind of trees Melody! It is just a phobia. The Japanese name I like is Mikka. I think it would be great, not only because I like it, but Todd, his dad, and my dad are all Michaels.

Janell said...

Jeff and I are both sold on the idea that vegetarianism is a good idea, but we can't quite bring ourselves to do it. I could easily give up red meat and not miss it--I hardly ever eat it. But I love fish and chicken. However, I'd love more meatless meal ideas too as I try to go meatless at least a couple nights a week. So, if you have any, please post to the recipe blog! There is a meatless or vegetarian label, but it only has a couple of recipes so far. Actually, I just made a quiche the other night that was very yummy ... I'll have to post it!

There's always a need for good, stable foster/adopt families! So I say go for it when/if the time become right for you.

Becky said...

I had NO idea you were Japanese, that's way cool!! I can kind of see it though now...and Alyssa is totally Irish, how funny!!

Becky said...

P.S. you and Marsha look so cute in that pic!!